Was kept thinking should I write on English for this one.
Self-cultivation - I learned a new word today.
How many of you have a depression friend around? How do you treated them? Assume they're dangerous people? Not dare to talk to them? Afraid whatever you said would trigger their emotional point? Believe these are what normal people would do. Gladly that I was able to walkout from the darkness gradually, can't be guaranteed that I'm fully recovered from it, but at least the amount of time to take to recover to the normal is getting shorter and shorter.
Thinking back long time ago where my best friend went to our high school's friend's wedding, a few of old schoolmates asked my best friend "how's the crazy one?", "are you still be friend with the crazy one?" Well, I really not sure what is their intention is and what answer do they expect.
The purpose of this post is just to bring a concern to those - If you're really that unfortunate that you've met a depression person in your life, please be aware of what you said, because that doesn't mean you're an absolute normal and elegant human being, it just show the world how much ethic you've.
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今天來說說過去。。。
當一個人做了些不經意的事，是需要多久才可以得到他人的原諒和忘記呢？
那是要看看個人，有些人會大方的選擇原諒，但有些人卻是會牢記一輩子。
曾經算是有些重度憂鬱症的我，即便過了十多年，但是在中學時期，憂鬱症發作的時候，到現在還是被許多人牢記在心。
雖然現在很多人都很會口說「要多多關注憂鬱症的病人」，
但是，真的做到關心的，最多就真的都只是口說說而已。
很慶幸自己可以慢慢的走出來。。。
雖然我有不時又會回到自己的世界裡，但是需要沈澱的時間算是越來越短。
很多人都記得過去，很難忘記的是，我好友跟我說最誇張的是當她出席中學同學的婚宴時，
有些人還會說「你還跟那個神經病做朋友啊？」，「那個神經病現在怎樣了？」。。。
真不知這些人的用意是什麼。。。
特意寫這篇是想說，儘管是真的很不幸的。。。你身邊出現了這樣的人，請記得你說的每一句話都代表你自身的修養哦！
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