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Sunday, October 06, 2013

Unexpected Malay's Wedding Invitation

October 6, 2013, Sunday
As a Malaysian Chinese,
have you ever been to a Malay's wedding???

This was my first time attended to an unexpected Malay's wedding!!!
Why was it unexpected???
The story got to begin with my HongKong backpack trip!!!
Because of that trip I met this France girl,
she told me that she wants to meet me before her trip to Australia!!!
So she decides to stay in KL for three days,
on Friday she thought I was working,
on Saturday both of us were just waiting for each other to email to set a time to meet up =.=!!!
Finally we got to meet on Sunday,
and luckily the place she asked to meet up is at Batu Caves (cause even though I'm from KL, I don't really know how to go a lot of places in KL!!!)
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身家这个多元种族的国家的华人们,
你们是否有参加过马来同胞的婚礼呢???

这个突如其来的婚礼邀请真是意想不到的!!!

事情一切开始于我香港单身潜逃旅行,
因为那次旅行我认识了这位法国朋友,
因为熟络所以她说她在去澳洲前要来马来西亚一趟!!!

星期五的时候她已经到了,
星期六很没有默契的她在等我的电邮而我也在等她的电邮,
所以只有到星期天才见面!!!

其实蛮丢脸的说我是个路痴只是会去1U而已,
还好她说她星期天的时候会去黑风洞参观,
黑风洞就在我爸公司的附近嘛,
所以没有问题,呵呵!!!

I drive passed by this everyday,
but have never take a picture of it,
the last time I've been to this place,
I was just a primary school student!!!

As a lazy person like me,
I didn't go up,
I told her to call me after they're done!!!
("They" are referred to her friend who met in her hostel, one from Denmark and the other is local Malay guy)

About an hour later,
they called me told me that malay guy's friend just called up to tell that his sister wedding ceremony was around Batu Caves so he just invited us to join ceremony!
Okay, that's so out of sudden!!! 
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每天都驾车经过,
但是从来都没有拍过照,
我最上次去的时候是小学,
这么懒惰的我当然没有跟他们一起爬上去,
(他们是指她在宿舍认识的一位丹麦人和一位在宿舍工作的马来人)
我跟他们说你们爬完后再打电话给我过后再看怎样。。。

很快的大概差不多一个小时,
他们就打电话给我了,
其中那一位马来朋友说他朋友的妹妹的婚礼就在Batu Caves附近很突然的邀请了他们和我一起去参加!!!

We're like VIP,
sit so near to the host's table!!!
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我们好像贵宾这样被安排在很靠近这个主人家的桌子用餐!!!

Have been to so many Chinese wedding,
but for Malays wedding was the first time,
and the food are yummy!!! =]
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华人结婚餐我就吃多了,
马来人的结婚餐还是第一次,
感觉很新鲜。。。而且很好吃!!!   =]

 In the middle of the meal,
someone send this to each of us!!!
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吃到一半的时候,
有人送来这个!!!

After we done with the meal,
the bride and groom were just arrived!!!
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吃完后不久,
新娘和新郎到了!!!

Finally got to see them,
the bride is so pretty!!! 
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终于看到他们了,
新娘很漂亮哦!!!

After they arrived,
they just walked straight to the hall,
begins with praying???
(not sure,
cause we're chitchatting!!!)
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到了后,
他们直接进入礼堂祈祷!!!
(应该是吧,不是很确定,
因为我们那时候在聊天没有什么注意到!!!)

On the other side,
they're playing and singing of the hall!!! 
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在外面几个伴乐们很兴起的演奏起来!!!

This mc was so great,
cause at first we thought they play the songs from CD or something,
but surprisingly he was the one sang live!!!
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这个司仪很厉害,
我们之前都以为他们是播放歌曲的,
没有想到全部都是他唱现场的,
真是惊叹!!!

The guests bless the bride and groom!!!
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来宾们送上祝福!!!

After long approaching to my friend,
finally she wants to go through this blessing part!!! =]
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一直怂恿了很久,
终于叫到我朋友去尝试这个给予祝福的过程!!!   =]

This baby girl is so cute!!!
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在婚礼上看到这个小宝宝好可爱哦!!!

Guess all of these are their friend,
not sure about it,
I just took it cause a lot of people were taking this picture!!! =] 
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看到很多人拍这张照片所以我也凑一份热闹!!!   =]

Done with everything,
finally they can have their meal!!!
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仪式结束后,
他们也用餐去了!!!

My friend got this as souvenir after the blessing part,
this reminds me of my form 2 english's literature "Bunga Telur and Belly Shoe"!!!
Hahaha!!! =]
(Still can remember it, after been so long???) 
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这个是我朋友完成那个祝福仪式后送给她的手信,
它让我很熟悉,
中学中二literature中,
其中一个故事“Bunga Telur and Belly Shoe”
哈哈哈!!! =] 

This is what was inside that box!!!
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这个是那盒子里面的东西!!!

An egg and some chocolate!!! 
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原来是一粒鸡蛋和一些巧克力!!!

This was given as souvenir when we entered the ceremony!!!
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这个是入席的时候给的手礼!!!

Was wondering what's inside,
so it's just a cake!!!
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一直好奇里面是什么,
原来是鸡蛋糕!!!

I sent my friends back to their hostel after the ceremony,
not sure when is it gonna be the next time for us to meet again???
Hahaha!!!
Maybe next year somewhere around April and May in France because of the air show!!! =]
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那婚礼后我就送我朋友他们回去他们的宿舍了,
不知道我下次见到她的时候会不会是在法国呢???
哈哈哈!!!
有的话应该是明年的四,五月因为要配合航空展!!!    =]

18 comments:

  1. 我只出席过印裔同胞的婚礼
    你这经验真的很突然
    但还不错呢^^

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    1. 对呀,最好笑的是我刚刚前一个小时才人士那个马来人而已!!! =]

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  2. 看到你拍那个佛像 突然觉得我们很靠近过 哈哈

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    1. Nope, wasn't dare to do so, cause we just pump into their wedding on the spot, quite sudden lo!!! =]

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  4. wow, this is really impromptu!! i like it!! and i hope you were wearing a decent dress that day, or else you wear like Ah Soh like that go to people's wedding then quite siah suey also!! hahaha..

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    1. i have also been to a malay wedding once, and just once so far.. it was the wedding of an ex-colleague long long time ago in year 1999.. a good experience and it was simple compared to our Chinese wedding.. just went there to see the couple and then makan a bit then go home, haha~~ :D

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    2. Wahahahaha~~~~ I was glad that I wore a proper shirt, but my Denmark's friend was just wore t-shirt and half short pants, he's keep saying he feels very bad cause she wore the improper clothes!!! =]

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    3. 1999??? That's super long ago, but impress that you've such a good memories, can remember stuffs happened so many years ago, 劲咯!!! =]

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  5. 我小学中学很多马来朋友,最近几年他们结婚了,但是一直错过,因为没有假期,所以我只去过1,2次马来人的婚礼。我家人每次去马来朋友的婚礼,真的很温馨哪,手礼都是很窝心的东西。
    你上次香港旅行认识到好多朋友,很棒^_^

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    1. 我中学也是有很多马来朋友,不过毕业后就没有什么联络了!!! =[

      对呀,我也是很开心认识到他们,还有几个更好的,还没有时间分享出来!!! =]

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  6. Yes, I ve been to several kenduri before, I am from Methodist school so I know quite a lot of Malay friends ;)

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    1. I used to have a lot in my high school too, but never keep in touch after graduate!!! =[

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  7. *Bally shoes" Branded, very expensive...unless made in Thailand. LOL!!!

    Been to many Malay weddings. I hear it's not so common over there - here, small place...we are more integrated, know one another better.

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  8. what a lovey bonus for your france friend to be able to attend malay wedding

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    1. Yup!!! Both of us were kinda surprise for doing that!!! =]

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