April 13, 2016, Wednesday
Maybe I'm already way pass this level, indeed I was a super easy to felt jealous person (okay, I always said I'm the second and nobody can bit me to get the first place)
But recently, actually is so not recently, is just that it came to the point to exceed my limit. In 2016, I started unfollow many people, many that only show the bright side of their life in the social media. Not that say that I jealous of them, eh! Actually I was, like those always got gift from who and who, then I would like why all these people like so fortune one, always must have somebody buy them something. So in order to stop that stupid jealousy thing, I stop following them (sorry ya, but keep reading, explanations come later)
The reason I stop it is...I just want to focus on my life, one day I don't see what they have so I won't feel any jealousy and sour of them. Oh ya, so then you might say that I will lost track of my friends. Eh, come la! Those true friends, really needs your 24 hours to track them where are they and what are they doing is it?? Ever since I got betrayed by somebody, nope! I shouldn't use the "betrayed" word, because she doesn't betray me, she just used me......and fair enough, I was so stupid to realize it until the circumstance come and my the other friend pump into me ask about that......
As a senior level of a jealousy person, what was I kept on thinking was when people go travel, I will say like why they so rich one, kept on go for vacation. Then when people own something new, I will say why they got so much extra pocket money to buy extra stuffs one. And when people got gift from anyone, I was like why I don't have one or why I don't have somebody to give something like that......
Now what I wanna say is people got somebody sponsor them to go travel, so I go myself la. I save the money then go travel myself so I don't have to feel any sour from them and NOT EVERYONE ALWAYS GO TRAVEL IS RICH!!! Second people got new thing, hmmm...do I really need those stuffs?? If do so, save the money to buy, just as simple as that......Last, people got gift and why I don't have, I go send gifts to people, I'm very happy to prepare gifts because I like to see others surprise face. I DON'T NEED ANY RETURNS GIFT and started to learn from giving is more than receiving!!!
END OF STORY and no Chinese version today because is a rant post, hohoho!!!
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I also very easy get jealous one.. Really.. My hubby is the only one who can tolerate my nonsense.. Oh, I unfollowed many friends already in FB, not because I'm jelaous of them, but I can't tahan their nonsense.. Everyday rant in FB, talk nonsense in FB, well I don't feel comfortable to unfriend them, so I just unfollow them lor..
ReplyDeleteYea lo, same same here, unfollow is better than anything, just that we still have a choice.
DeleteJealousy is ok but don't turn it to action that will hurt your friends' feeling. I used to have a friend that easy to get jealous to others, and even bad mouthed about people, that's horrible. However, when time goes by, I believe she will realize how immature of her action, just like you.
ReplyDeleteI also bad mouthed about others one =.= But now try to cut down more, hehe!! Still in learning process.
Delete咦，今天的部落不是双语 ~:)
ReplyDelete回家再加給您吧，這篇是因爲用來發牢騷的
DeleteI really hate Facebook because I have lost my privacy there with so many relatives who are silent vultures and hypocrites. Sometimes I wish that FB and Watsaps or Vibers were not invented too because I was being forced by morons into their group chats where the guys talked pure nonsense only.
ReplyDeleteRemember my favourite words that all humans use karma to trade with each other. If we can analyze and understand this, we can overcome many obstacles for sure. Everybody will use everyone else somehow, be it big or small way. Even blogging also is like trading karma too. See what happened to that famous Thambee who has retired suddenly. That is a big questions mark! LOL
Anyway, you are still young and must have learnt from all observations of the betrayals, nonsense, lies and hypocrisy of people around us. We just need to be on our guard always and control all the situations in future. The future is now actually.
Once in while, you need to see how the homeless are sleeping under the flyovers to appreciate that our problems are really tiny matters to them. They worry about rain, robbers and next meals while we worry about next holidays and clothes to wear to a big wedding function.
Good Luck and Good Day to you.
SIGH..........don't talk about him, say once only his blog, I felt sad, his is the most shouldn't stop writing one, kind of waste such a talented person in blogging world.
DeleteYea, talking about those, I wanna force my friend go with me once, so long time didn't do good things already, o.O
Let me double check my blog see got make you jealous anot. Eh my Europe trip is from my own money also hor!
ReplyDeleteJealous for you for what, you one year only go travel once awhile and not always la....don't worry, I usually jealous on girls only!!
DeleteI also unfollowed some friends in FB, headache manz... Everyday post this post that, see till, haiz....
ReplyDeleteDon't see is the best!!
DeleteGood, just be honest to yourself!
ReplyDeleteAs usual what, hehe!
DeleteIt is good to rant here as it is your blog so you can write what you want. You don't seem to be the jealous type as you are always so generous to send us cards and gifts during festivals and when you go travelling.
ReplyDeleteHahaha, talking about this, I felt so guilty....there're still a lot in the box to be send out...
DeleteI don't mind seeing people happy, enjoying themselves...not those moaning and groaning, complaining about this and that - life is miserable enough as it is without all these people making it worse and those who do not bother how they say what they say.
ReplyDeleteI do believe it is not what you say and how you say it - it would be good to be more diplomatic and not say anything that would hurt the feelings of others. Do not do unto others what you would not want others do unto you.
I guess you misunderstood a bit....
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