February 10, 2014, Monday
Always try not to bring up any trouble, I've this neighbor park their cars in front of my gate for whole day......They're from the same neighbor and the funny thing is they don't want to park their car inside their house instead they parked in front of my front gate, how am I gonna to go out???
The super sad thing is they've been parked there for whole day, it's not the first, is been quite few times, my mom suggests to put a note on their stated as "Please don't park here!" ......but for me it's kind of like impolite and wanted to write as "How if I parked my car in front of your front gate?"
I'm really not good at dealing with all the conflict thing......for me I always can't solve it and have the let it remain like the same since I don't know how to settle it......
我自认是一个不会处理这种人际沟通上的人，每次可免则免的事我都会尽量的避开，但是我隔壁的邻居就是爱把他家的车泊在我家门口，而且不是放一下子，而是一整天了，或许是我的驾车技术烂，但尝试问一下这个如此的小空间如何进出车子呢？？？
这已经不是第一次了，它们都是属于同样一家的人，更让人不思的是他们不把车子放进屋内即使是有位子！！！ 我妈说放张字条说“请你可以不要把车子停泊在这里吗？” 可是我觉得我比较想写“假如我把车子停泊在你家门口你会怎样做？
换做是你，那你会怎么做呢？
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你把车停在你家门口，看他们怎样做咯。
ReplyDelete问题是我不敢呢。。。
Deletejust talk to them lor.. and if they still do the same thing after telling them, then either put a sign there or just do the same thing on them.. park your car right in front of their gate.. 先君子後小人~~
ReplyDeleteJust talk to them, guess what they reply, "why I can put last time, but now cannot!" The "last time" means last week which is cny, I wasn't at home for a whole week!!! @.@!!!
Deletesay la last time you put here it inconvienced me . If they continues then you go and parked at their place la. Say I cannot come out from the house. so I parked in front of your house lo since your house no car. I not blocking people come out mah.
Deleteor ...if you park here later if any damages happen to your car i no guarantee lor....
DeleteMy sis ask me to press on their gate bell every time when I want to get in and out to disturb them, until they can't stand it...=[
DeleteI think you have to talk to them la. They are too "jual ikan" jor
ReplyDeleteThey very stubborn...they some more said why I can park last week (I wasn't at home last week)
Delete贴大大个no parking给他。
ReplyDelete唉，我姐姐说担心他们往后会把垃圾倒在我家门口呢。。。
Deletetell you what..just put a heavy chair in front of your gate. My mum always do that to avoid the neighbour from parking in front of her house. Some people are very inconsiderate. This way, you are sending silent message.
ReplyDeleteYah, later gonna discuss a bit about it with my sis...
DeleteYou're not alone. I just pray for patience - God is all seeing, all knowing - one day, they will get their "due reward".
ReplyDeleteThanks for your kindness! =]
Delete果真很难进屋，那每天回来要进屋时猛响车笛，吵死人，让大家知道邻居的泊车劣行！！！再看看他的反应！
ReplyDelete在我另外一个家的更可爱，我每次都好奇为什么她每次早晚都要响一次车笛，原来她是回来进门要响一下，出去要响一下。。。但就是不知道为什么她一定要这样做。。。
Delete如果是我直接拍照片放上FB,然后放在我们家乡的群里!让他红!
ReplyDelete我不会这样做，最多在幻想里面做，我不敢哦。。。
Delete你妈妈的建议很好，我想那也是唯一一个可以保持两家友好关系的方法吧~
ReplyDelete但那样好像会很尴尬呢。。。
Delete好好跟他们沟通，应该行得通吧？
ReplyDelete但如果是那种不讲道理的邻居，就还是请警察来处理咯...
（问题是，警察会不会管这些的呢？）真是个难解决的问题
哈哈哈，我们这里的警察哪会那么勤劳，那么积极。。。
DeleteSometimes this happens to me also. So everytime needs to go out will have to knock on the neighbours' door and ask them to remove their cars please.
ReplyDeleteThat's the only to "disturb" them, until they can't stand have to remove their cars every time!!!
Delete我也遇过这样的事情，但不是邻居的车
ReplyDelete不明白他们是什么心态， 一点同理心都没有
记得有一次我连续中好多次又是赶着上班， 生气到写张小纸no parking 放在他车窗上 哈哈
我也是很生气。。。气到我第二天，刻意把车听得很近他的车。。。因为那时候已经被生气冲昏了头。。。
DeleteHmm, if for me, I'll sort of tell them politely first, if still no actions taken, then sorry lo, I'll take a step forward..... (But what is that step, I have no idea yet :P)
ReplyDeleteHahaha.....hopefully the polite way will work, so no need to move to next step...
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