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Monday, June 03, 2013

Girls!!!

Don't worry, as the title stated as girls doesn't mean is for girls to read only!!!
There's something that I have no idea should say it or not, 
as the story is too long,
I just got to jump to my personal opinions!!!

For those that don't know about me,
probably that you thought I'm that type of person get pissed off very quickly!!!

Well!!!
To be honest,
is not easy to get me angry on something,
because I always like to give chances to others,
like for the first time, I will forgive for doesn't know about it,
second time, I will still assume you maybe forget about it,
the third time...

Probably more than third time sometimes because I'll forget about it on the next second!!!
Unless it happened too many times,
then I just might pay attention to it!!!

For an example that happened me all the time!!!
You have been calling this person but he/she never answer your call, then you'll get pissed off right away and wait for he/she to please you back or buy you back anything to say sorry to if not you won't talk to this person again!!!
But for me, I get used to it, because no matter how many calls you make to this kind of friends, they just never pick up especially you called four to five friends and they're the same too. And the funny thing is when see them, I totally forgot about this matter again!!!
(Obviously, for this type of friends, I always love to think an excuse for them, maybe they're busy or what, but do you know that if the call is from her boyfriend or someone important, no doubt it, they'll answer straight away even though they're in the bathroom or what)

There's one more!!!
Which I always feel sorry for them because they always have this kind of thought all the time!!!
A lot of girls always said I'm so pity, so lonely, I wanna cry already, because my boyfriend is away with his friends or work or some stuffs just like couple hours or days away from them, they have to yell at the world that I'm so lonely, no one is lonely and pity like me!!!
Hello!!! Is not you guys break up or what, is just few hours or few days...!!! =.=!!! That's enough to kill you??? How about single like me, am I should be die few years ago or I should be crying under my blanket??? Well, girls!!! Don't you have your own life??? Don't tell me you have no friends except him, so how did you survive before you meet him??? Huh??? Be independent!!!
(You just "zoom in" your loneliness, keep on and on thinking like that, of course that you can't get out from that!!! You'll just end up crying there and [wasting time and your free life])

I know that those are just criticize on girls!!!
I hope you girls won't mind about it!!!

I'm very straight forward person,
I don't like to play games!!!
What games???
Those games that girls like to play!!!
Guess what am I thinking!!! Guess what am I like!!! Guess what I was upset/angry about!!!
Hello!!!
Don't you have a mouth???
Can't you just say it???
What's the point of standing and wasting time to let people guess and once people guessed wrong your face just turned black and pissed off of it!!!
We all are human,
we're not any part of your body or can read your mind,
you don't say it,
we can't understand what you want, what you want to say!!!

That's why...
after I entered my engineering course,
I always hangout with guys,
if really have to count,
I just have maybe five girl friend...

Trust me!!!
Is not that I want it like that,
is just that I'm too tired to play all these silly games!!!

Sorry for those pictures below are in Chinese!!!
(Pictures are from 丁一晨's Weibo)
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不说不知道,
或许你会看了当时我怒气冲冲而写下的古晋之旅送明信片的文章,
你会觉得我小事就生气地大小姐!!!

话说要把我真的弄生气,
而且粗话连篇还真的不容易!!!

第一次犯错我原谅你不知道,
第二次我就当你不留心忘记了。。。
事不过三。。。

第三次我就真的会生气。。。
也或许我第三次我可能还会下一秒就忘记。。。

可是很多次我就是说我自己犯贱!!!
每次都会有很多莫名其妙的人事物,
我都会不管!!!

像是有人会说怎么你只打电话给我的朋友而朋友不接就会自己在生闷气要等别人来哄回自己才罢休!!!
对我来说我是已经习惯到不能再习惯,我尝试打电话给四,五个人,有本事全部都不接,过后我还是可以没有事情的说笑!!!
(虽然我每次都会找借口给她们,也是她们在忙,可要知道这几个人都是假如是男朋友打电话来或者是自己在乎不依的人即使在大便或冲凉都会博出来接电话的重色亲友的女生)

像是有人会说我男朋友都不陪我,给我自己一个人,一个人吃饭很寂寞,很痛苦!!!
实话说又不是分手,才离开一下子,一两三个小时就说自己寂寞,痛苦,我这些不是早就哭死了??? 没有在投射谁,只是一点点地东西,女生们!!!有必要把它看到世界末日???我是一个人做很多事的,每个人都有自己的生活,何时才学会独立??? 
(可知道这都是自己把自己寂寞看得太大,一直的钻牛角尖才会越想就越觉得自己很可怜)

以上种种都是我的难言之语,
不能我整件事情说上来,
因为故事太长!!!

再说我希望各位女生不要生气,
我的性格比较直,
我不喜欢和女生玩那种猜心思,猜自己心里在想什么,猜你们心里在生气生么这种游戏!!!
我放直的说我不是住在你的心里,
我不会读心术,
我更不喜欢浪费时间去猜!!!
所以自从我进我的科系以来我的朋友大多都是男生,
真的要数我真正女生朋友不超过五个。。。

因为我很累去应酬这些搞不懂的东西!!!

人活大了,
世界不是绕着你走的,
一直玩这种游戏你何时才长大???

以下的都是来自丁一晨在微博的作品


Is that I really want to talk bad about girls,
is just that I really don't what's in your mind???

Come on, you're no longer a teenage girl,
why do you still like to play games like that???

I used to study in girls school in my high school,
I've seen enough girls,
back stepper or obsess about relationships!!!

After high school,
20++ or even 30++ still like this,

One more fact to add,
which makes me hate girls sometimes,
I know some aren't but most of them are!!!
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不是我要大谈女生这些的不是,
可是有时候是不是应该自己要清楚明白自己在做什么在想什么???

活了这么大,
在中学的时候读女校就已经出现过像明争暗斗的情景,
才十多岁就可以这么犀利,
不是犀利的就是软弱的一直说为什么他不喜欢我!!!

出了中学,
看到二十多岁人的还有将近三十都是这样,
一哭,二闹,三上吊。。。
不然就是玩猜游戏!!!
嘴巴烂了不能说吗???

也成就了我讨厌女生的原理!!!
或许不是全部都是这样,但是大多都是这样!!!

36 comments:

  1. 不过这种女生我到现在还没见过。可能我的朋友里面就还好

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  2. 看开点,出了社会,什么样的人都有。
    想要大富大贵,更不是那么简单,没有了这些明争暗斗,哪里来的最后?
    笑容多一点,好的人最后还是赢家,时间还很长。
    比别人辛苦一点不算什么,因为比你糟糕的人多得是。
    这样想,那么一切都是浮云。=)

    与你共勉之。

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  3. Certainly hot topic.chill :-).

    Thing will settle dwn after they got married

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  4. Certainly hot tooic. Chill....think ofvthe good things

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  5. Argh...3rd time trying to comment here.....kept dc :-(

    Chill..things will be alright.

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    1. We all gone through this before. Its just a stage. When u grow older the girls will be back together again

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  6. @Small KucingNope, if you ask me, I'll rather spend time with books, unless the books won't make me angry!!! =]

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  7. 呵呵~
    这个世界上,格式各类的人也有~
    以前我遇到麻烦人会觉得自己怎么那么倒霉遇上这样的人
    现在就一笑置之……
    那个可以让我很火大的人,肯定很倒霉!哈哈!

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  8. 不气不气,一种米养百种人
    这些人,见怪不怪了
    面对他们,自己的EQ就要高一点 =)

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  9. totally agreed what you say!
    我也是觉得和敏感的女生做朋友很累
    但是她们和我在一起的话
    就会变了 因为那一套在我身上起不了作用

    只是关于打电话的我不能忍受
    因为只要我一直联系不到你
    Sorry to say, I will give up on you
    until you finally recall me and I might 理你or 不理你 depends on my mood.

    So, "girls" wont mess with me, LOL~

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  10. 所以,我的好朋友以異性居多,也比較和異性談得來。。。不是特地也不是故意,就覺得好像很難,融進一些女生/女人的社群,呵呵。
    我也贊同,漫畫最後說的,絕望,讓我們走下去!^^

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  11. 我有遇过这样的人,总觉得自己很可怜,把自己的不幸放大,再放大~~
    去开解她,她也只会说,针没刺到我的肉,我不知道她的痛。。。

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  12. In teenage are many problems but all be nice. Believe me all grows!
    xx

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  13. 我有遇过如此,幸好不是深交的,所以对我影响不大

    你别那么气了,让自己不开心罢了哦~~~

    生活是自己的,要如何走,就看个人的造化啊·~

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  15. 现在还是有很多这样的人。
    不过我很庆幸我的朋友都不会是这样的。
    这样的女生我遇多人头会痛死==
    应该说是不成熟吧。

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  16. @倩倩不同性格!!! 其实也没有什么,只是有时候觉得太累了!!! =]

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  17. 对我来说,我坚持自己的生活 & 思想。
    我们不能控制别人,至少如果觉得不适合,就不要深交、尽量疏远,对不对啊?

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  18. @Joyce Mong哈哈哈!!! 认识我的人都知道我看很开的,每次一直骂一直骂,但是人家就说要帮忙我就是那个白痴一样第一个跳出来!!! =]

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  19. @Small KucingHuh??? Trust me!!! My sister married already, but her tempered still like this same, ask me, how I trained my EQ, part of it is from there!!! =]

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  20. @Small KucingSometimes, when you get really down is hard to jump up high in one second, just have to take some time to understand it and think over it!!! =]

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  21. @Small KucingTrust me, I chill all the time, just that every people has the limit of something!!! =]

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  22. @杂八郎 a.k.a 珍妮花可以一笑而过我都过了,支持我的都是负能量!!! =]

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  23. @Vachel哈哈哈,我很相信我的EQ是不低的!!! =]

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  24. @小雪其实这几天下来都很累,所以我才离开部落格一小段时间,因为我需要透气一下和清楚整理支撑自己的负能量!!! =]

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  25. @小鎮姑娘很开心你看明白我要表达的一切!!! 我要说的是即使有这么多,我是很累,但是支撑到最后都是这些负能量让我坚强起来!!! =]

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  26. @宅妈这种就是所谓的砖牛角尖,唯一让她们走出来的方法只有时间和她们自己帮到她们而已!!! =]

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  27. @@LIc3 s-h-i-h^s-h-i-h说白了,自己才是自己最重要的,其他人会背叛,会离开,自己是永远最信得过的!!! =]

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  28. @wennOmg!!! That's surprise!!! Thanks a lot!!! =]

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  29. @慧慧对呀,所以对自己深交就好,因为我是感情很丰富的人,搞得我很累!!! =[

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  30. 嗯,这点我们有点像哦,自中学来,我可以说都在男人堆里过,就连大学时整班就只有我一个女生。上班后也是,整个部门就两个女生。

    可是其他部门就不一样咯,女人堆,不过也还好,
    也许我比较随和啦,或须是假?哈哈哈。处得来就多谈几句,不能就哈啦几句,完全不放在心里,无需强求,日子好过得很呢!

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  31. @EJ已经没有什么理会了,嘻嘻!!! =]

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