Have you ever realized kids or teenagers nowadays have lost their basic etiquette???
First ~ you can yell or scold like hell at home and this just only happens at your house and use it on your beloved parents or siblings only BUT not outside towards others or among your colleague/friends, cause people don't deserve it!!!
Second ~ when ask something from someone please be polite! Nobody owe you anything, they don't deserve to be asking like giving an order!!! By saying a "thank you" wouldn't wasted much of your saliva or energy!!!
Third ~ you're not the PRINCESS or PRINCE, so please don't act like you're!!! Your friends or people around you are not like your slaves have to listen to you all the time!!!
Yes, this is for someone who's out of his/her manner that I wanted to talk about for so long, all these are so basic things, all little prince and princess please grow up a bit once you have stepped into the society cause they're no longer your families which always tolerate you all the time!!!
Yup
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My kids also like that
Haiz...
Must try your best to teach them start from now!!! =]
Delete家庭教育很重要，父母不要太宠孩子，让他们养成这样的坏习惯咯！！！
ReplyDelete现在的父母，那会听啊？
Delete这些是家庭教育，我们不从说太多，但却也真心希望小孩子最基本做个有礼貌的人。
ReplyDelete对呀，但糟糕的是孩子又不是我们的，无论如何的说，好像都会被反驳似的!!! =[
Deletesigh...what is new....me feel so old jor
ReplyDeleteI also feel old!!! =[
Deleteyes, even the way they say 'excuse me', the tone and the voice also quite rude.
ReplyDeletei hope my kid wont be like this in future
Yah, I got that too!!! =[
Deleteyeah, i do feel the same also.. though we cannot generalize that all kids nowadays are like that, but i think many are like that, or at least the two in my home are like that.. haiz!!
ReplyDeleteYah, can't be generalize, but most are like that, hardly find one wasn't like that nowadays!!! =[
Deletethey are really spoilt lah.. very rude and don't even know what is manners and respect.. can simply just shout and yell like that thinking that they are the KING or QUEEN at home.. and you are so true, wait till they step into the society and they will have a tough time with others..
ReplyDeleteAt the same time, which explain why suicide case were keep increasing nowadays!!! =[
Delete現在的教育難道真的出現問題了？
ReplyDelete是太多年輕爸媽？還是太寵壞孩子了？還是小孩太快成長了？
很多是因为小时候都得不到，所以自己有了孩子后说什么都不让他们吃苦，所以他们已经习惯了好像被服侍般的对待!!! =[
Delete冷静冷静，不要为不值得的人生气
ReplyDelete他们会为自己不会教导孩子而付出代价的
那个。。。要等很久，可能到那时候我已经活活的被气死了。。。*.*!!!
Delete我现在很有压力，我好怕因为我不会教，以后孩子也变成这样 >.<
ReplyDelete不会啦，看你说的，我觉得你儿子好好学哦，不像我家的只爱ipad!!! =[
Delete很多父母一开始不是要溺宠孩子，而是疼爱使得很多事都比较开放，随和。
ReplyDelete从小自由惯了，等到10多岁开始接触外面的世界，突然要去约束已经变得不可能，
而且很多人有错误的观念，觉得“有礼貌”是太严肃，太古老的想法。
试问你成年之后还有对什么人那么尊重和礼貌吗？ 如果一直都有，孩子自然就会学习，
而且教起来也比较容易。但是成年人有各自的烦恼，有时骂人啦，发泄啦，小孩都看在眼里噢~
还有就是资讯太发达了，小小年纪就已经不从父母那里得到信息，
他们已经开始有自己的想法和圈子，所以说，现代父母任重而道远~
父母都是孩子的榜样，父母不以身作则，孩子怎么学!!! =[
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