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Friday, August 01, 2014

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August 1, 2014, Friday
How many of you get to go back to your studied field??? Every end of the year, I always wish to go back to my studied field, and this year July, I'm finally back to my favorite field!!!
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有多少人是毕业于什么就可以就业回自己所读的科目呢??
每年的年尾,我为自己定下的目标都是让自己回归自己的本行就业,今年的七月,我终于可以回归自己喜爱的行业的上班!!

Last time I've bunch of time to blogging and commenting because I was working in my dad's company which I get to do whatever I want after I've done with my job......but now I'm no longer that free to do whatever I want during the working hours......
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以前的我是没有时间限制的写部落格,那是因为我是跟我爸爸工作,只要完成自己手上的工作,那么我就可以去做自己想做的东西!    也因为回归本行所以我没办法那么自由写部落及到处留言!!   

Maybe some people can comment as "Everything just depends on I want to do it or not, if I really want, I can make the time for it!" Then I can answered you that I seriously don't have the time, not even have time to really relax!! Okay then you may said "I can go back blogging and commenting at home after I've done with my job!" I've tried that before, not that I making conclusion without any trying, for me that lifestyle is so boring and rushing and the worst thing is I don't know what am I rushing for??? Or maybe you said I can do whatever I want first then only do blogging and commenting...that......gonna be like some time around midnight...and seriously that's not gonna to happen because I'm no longer that young, I'm 26 this year, we woman got to know how to take care of ourselves, the most thing that those beauty guru gave is not to sleep later than midnight, and woman who sleep very late, they'll grow much older than those don't!! You might be able to see the efficient right now, but it'll slowly come in your future......you'll look older than those who always sleep on time and doesn't how many and how expensive facial products you used also can't replace that!!!
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做人还是现实一点好,假如你说“事在人为,看我自己要不要分好那个时间罢了!”   我可以回答你说,我上班时间几乎是忙碌到那种闲空的时间都没有,不要说留言还是写部落格好了!!!   假如你说可以上班时间的上班,回家写跟留言就好。。。那我也想问一问,那你的生活不就剩上班跟部落格???   我真的有尝试过,太赶太无聊了!!   还有假如你叫我半夜不睡觉而赶写部落格和留言,不好意思咯!   我都26岁人了,女人不保很快老,所以我都强迫我自己最迟12点前睡觉的,错过让身体新城代谢时间的女人就等于促进自己身体加快老化,再多再贵再贵的保养品都不够!!!

Sorry to say blogging is just part of my interest, not my whole interests and I've never ever thought that it can become part of my job, if you let me choose between blog and my job, I'll choose my job, the job always full of challenging, full of aircraft topics, full of guys and I'm the only female who works as the same job as they do!!!
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很抱歉说。。。部落格只是一个兴趣,我也从来没有想过要把它当成事业,选择于工作和部落格,不好意思。。。我还是会选我的工作,因为那就好像回归从前潜伏在飞机话题的世界,身边的朋友同事都是航空业不断的话题,回归全男性,但只有我一位女性的工作岗位(说就说到那么虚荣,但天天面对那么挑战的工作都不知道是不是犯贱)!!!

The previous two weeks, I forced myself to cut down commenting and blogging time, and used it on reading and learning something new, I found my life became much interesting and full of joy (You might said that I've lost the interest in blogging and commenting......the thing that I don't feel like doing the most is "comment because of comments" -->lots of people are like that, eh!! Think first before you answer, you should know the answer deep in your heart!)
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前一两个星期,我不但狠心的减少留言和写部落格的时间,而用那些时间来看书学其他东西,那真的让我生活充实精彩了许多,不是部落格的生活不精彩(或许你也可以说我已失去那种热忱,那种因为留言而留言的留言--->很多人都是这样的,不是吗???   先不要说自己没有,自己想一想再回答,答案你自己最清楚!)

Honestly I truly felt that I always "comment because of comments" which makes me very angry and tension, tension as in I'm so not interested to the topic, and I've nothing to comment about it but I still I need to comment then I need to go through the post again and again just to look for something to comment!!! It happens not just one time but many many times, time by time, day by day, week by week and even month by month......I was getting more and more tension and angry I can't anything to comment and I can't continued to the next one......
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诚实坦白的说我也真的为了“留言而留言”让自己非常非常的懊恼,是懊恼到那种找不到留言又再被迫重新读过整篇的那种,让我觉得很气愤又无奈,这让我早上本来心情好好的,然后因为找不到东西留言而需花时间重新读过而搞到我一整天都处于很情绪沸腾的状态,小小事就乱发飙!!!

Obviously as you can see, it's no longer a happiness task for me, every time I look at it, I felt so pressure, stress, tension and also very very angry......what for right??? Nowadays don't we always hunt for happiness, hunt for containment, hunt for joy in life......but now I'm so NOT like that!!!
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很明显的这已不是过去那种乐趣和开心,它已变成我的一种无形很重很重的压力,让我一点都不开心,做人不是要开心的吗???   做自己开心的事就是要随心而去做,而不是一直强迫自己,让自己每天都搞到闷骚极了!!!

I don't know how many negative comment I'll received on this, but what I want to say is this's what bothering me the whole time, I guess I rather telling the truth instead scolding at the back, ask yourself, do you really like to see a person is smiling in front of you but talking bad about you at your back???
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我不知道我写这个会得到多少的恶评,但这就是最真实的感受,我也不想一直扮演那种前面“笑笑留言”,然后背后“狂骂”的那种假惺惺的人,试问一下你喜欢这种在你面前笑笑然后在后面骂你的这种人吗???

PS: "I'll try my best continue on blogging but won't be comment as much I used to before, hope you understand, thanks in advanced!"
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PS: “我还是会留言和写部落格,只是不会留言很多,请明白我工作的忙碌及情绪管理不够好的心态,谢谢!”

61 comments:

  1. Now i don't online at night often, have to control, if not, no need to sleep liao...

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  2. I'm breaking my own rules to comment on your one coz I said I won't be commenting for the time being.. But... Is there a Like button for this post? If there is, I'd click a million times..
    Do what you like, as long as you are happy :)
    Or, be like me, take some rest, stop commenting (and blogging) for some time..
    I love you :)

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    1. I thought I'm straightforward & direct, until I got myself into trouble again and again..
      But I salute you for being more straightforward than me here.. But this is your blog, your page, so you won't get "bombed" (unlike me, kena "zha" in other ppl's blog, until 1 cent also no worth, which makes me lose interest in commenting, to be honest)..

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    2. Sorry Princess Ribbon to hear about your experience being "zha" in other ppl's blog. I must make sure that no one "zha" people in my blog by moderating the comments left there.

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    3. Apa ni? Who "zha" Princess Ribbon? I go whack him kao kao =.="

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    4. Hahaha, I don't like to pretend, one is kept quiet, if not might just tell the truth!!! =]

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  3. 小影,我也是很好奇你所谓的回归,是什么职业?Aviation...?

    看你郁闷发牢骚,冒个泡留言,哈哈(难得哦)

    不要因为“留言而留言”的恶语搞到自己不开心,慢慢学习拿捏自己喜欢的事,从中学习成长,没什么大不了...还有26岁很很很年轻,好不好,继续活力充沛啦

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    1. 哈哈哈,那是因为我之前都不是在航空业工作的啊!

      我知道,要好好爱自己,不要因为别人而搞到自己不开心!

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  4. Yeah , don't over stress yourself with blogging. Take a break and relax.

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    1. I used to last time, but I now I know what should I do is the best!! =]

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  5. Do what that makes you happy, Sheta! This is your own blog.. you can rant whatever you like... most important you are You.. we cannot please everyone... Take care!!

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    1. The most important thing is to please myself!! =]

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  6. 对啦,要是不是真心地读部落格,在部落格找不到乐趣,你这么做没什么不对。
    话说在前头,我是有过因为留言而留言的曾经,现在已经不会了。有的帖很闷我不会认真看,但说真的我现在多数都有认真读的~因为我也对大家的生活好奇,也想知道大家在想什么。我现在对待部落格,还有部落格认识的朋友的态度认真多了。
    不管怎样,只要开心就好!生活嘛 xD
    还有,恭喜你终于能做回自己想做的工啦!

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    1. 哈哈哈,对! 凡事不要太执着,坚持自己认为对的事!

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  7. 我同意你所说的不要为了留言而留言呵呵呵
    为了想留言而留言啊。。
    恭喜你。。希望你工作一切顺利啊。。。
    至于部落格我是觉得随心就好。。自己想写就写。。不想写就等有MOOD才回来啊
    这个空间是你自己的呢

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  8. Hello Sheta,

    First of all, let me congratulate you on getting your dream job, back in the aviation field. This is really a chance of a lifetime, I am so pleased for you.

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  9. Dear Sheta,

    After I read your post, I understand that you need to get this off your chest. Some people blog for money, some people blog for fun. Please don't feel pressured to just leave a comment for leaving comments sake. I fully understand this so please relax and only blog hop or blog when you feel like it and never because of the pressure to do so, ok?

    Some people leave a comment just to show the blog writer that they have read the post and it is all ok. Please take good care of yourself. Yes, I agree that sleep is very important, not only to women but to everyone too. Please get enough sleep and be well rested.

    All the best!
    Mun

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    1. Hahahaha, thanks Mun!! I'll find the way to please myself instead of pleasing others!! =]

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  10. Congratulation to secure a job in the field that you're interested. All the best for your new career ya!
    Do whatever that makes you happy. Blogging is just for fun =)

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  11. Why the outburst though?

    Just do whatever that makes you happy.

    And why get pressured from others.

    Life is meant to be lived your way not by what others dictate.

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    1. Forget the bad, remember the happiness and keep going on!!!

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  12. No worries. Everything becomes a chore when the heart is not in it. Blog when you feel like it, comment when you want to do so...not because you feel you have to. No meaning at all if that is the case. Chin up, girl...don't worry, be happy! Life's like that - make the most of it!

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  13. 难怪最近看你很少更新,也很少露面了,原来你找到了自己喜欢的工作而开始忙碌!为你感到开心哦!真的!
    好好享受自己的生活和工作,有空我们都等你回来哦!加油!

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    1. 2015年,我会尽量更新啦,谢谢你! =]

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  14. 我是传播系毕业,也曾在媒体工作,也算曾"学以致用"吧,呵呵

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  15. 不必刻意凑合别人,能找回自己是一件快乐的事。

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    1. 是,最重要的是不要迷失了自己!

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  16. 很好奇你会归的是什么职业?
    我现在依然做着不是我在行的工作!但,还是习惯了~
    恩,其实最近...应该说7月开始我就很少更新部落格了。
    即使留言也减少了很多。
    只是觉得读过更实在!:)
    工作顺利 :D

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    1. 你好像要断了更新哄,千万不要啊!

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  17. 可以问问你回归本业的职业是什么吗?

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  18. 别那么懊恼,做自己喜欢的事,开心过日子。有时写写遇到瓶颈,等过些日子,生活作息入轨道,说不定你又会爱上这部落圈的。

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  19. Don't worry Sheta! Do whatever you feel like doing~

    Think positive, tomorrow will be better! 加油!

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  20. 为什么会害怕恶评,我现在也是很忙很忙的一个人
    我累起来的时候,会有整个月不发文不会评语的记录
    有时候我也担心,这样会不会有人渐渐忘记我~~
    可是部落格就不是个如此压抑的地方~

    想要的时候就来吧,我们随时在=)

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  21. Congrats on getting your dream job! That is totally worth putting the blog on the backseat! Don't worry about morons who expect you to comment on every blog post they made, just do what you feel like. I know for one, I would feel more depressed if you leave me a half assed comment that makes me don't know how to reply.
    If it makes you feel better, I abandoned my blog for 4 years when my workload became overwhelming and I had to work until 9 or 10pm every day. Lost a lot of old readers, but heck cares? Not like they can help provide us a better future. If they cannot tolerate us looking out for ourselves, then they're not worth worrying about isn't it?
    All the best with your new job ;)

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    1. Is there a Love button for this reply as well? Oh dear, I broke my own rules already. I said I won't be commenting, but here I am, commenting again.. I think I miss RealGunners.. Seeing his reply like seeing him..

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    2. Yah, who the hell care about it right!!!!!!

      Princess Ribbon, I like this very much as well!! =]

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  22. Best of luck on your new undertaking.

    Why give yourself stress on commenting? relax. If not free or no mood then take a break. I do that most of the time

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  23. Blogging should be fun and not to be stressed..follow your heart take it easy

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  24. Hi Sheta! Blogging is just a hobby and we should not allow it to become the main focus of our life. Your job is definitely more important and that is where you need to put in your energy and time. If you don't have time to blog, just take a break. Also it is not necessary to comment just for the sake of commenting. For me, I don't expect my readers to comment all the time because there could be some posts that they may not have any interest in or they may not have any comments to add. It is OK.

    So don't stress yourself so much. If no comments, then no comments. Take time off and concentrate on other aspects of your life - your job, your family, your friends, your other hobbies and don't forget to set some time aside for yourself. Me time is very important too. And you are right, we must get enough sleep! I wish you all the best and you are lucky to be working in a field that you have chosen. Take care!

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    1. Thanks for your long comment, I'm really appreciate that~~~~~~

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  25. 难怪你消失了这么久!!

    恭喜你啦!找到属于自己的世界、快乐

    做人嘛,除了家人和自己,没有其他人需要交代什么的

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