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Wednesday, December 03, 2014

【Thoughts|想法】Keep Calm|冷静

December 3, 2014, Wednesday
No doubt it, I'm a hot-tempered person, when I mad at something, I just throw tempered and says everything out from my mouth (no need to cover for that, is okay to accept the imperfection and bad attitude some times!!) Back to the topic, gradually I realized when people are getting mad at us, we should become even more calm, no matter how angry it's, rather not talking (even better if not showing the angry face), we still have to keep calm, and only with this method, we won't make the "incident" getting even worst!!
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无可否认的,我是一个蛮火爆的人,遇到一不爽的事,我是会嘴巴会很贱的乱骂(也无需假假说自己好像很棒不会骂人的那样,每个人都有缺点,或许我的比较多,但始终是没有一个人是完美的,所以看事情,请看全面,不要以小事一宗就盲目的崇拜)回归正题,我最近发现,当别人越火爆越生气的时候,我们越需要冷静,无论我自己再怎样生气,即使不说话也要(最好不要丑脸),也要保持冷静,因为只有这样才不会把事情闹大!

Lots of dislike horn sound accident cases recently, (November 28) is Friday, this happened when I was driving back home, I saw almost the similar case like this, but I didn't my car to gossip about......what I saw was an Indian male stopped his car in the middle of road, in front of the traffic light (his traffic light was showing green on that time on his lane, his lane was a going straight lane, mine was the turning lane) don't know where's the horn sound from, I saw a moving stop suddenly and an Indian male stepped out from his car and walked towards the taxi which stopped beside me and start scolding!! I spotted within the few second then my lane traffic light turns green so I quickly drive away without know what was going happened to them!!


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话说最近很多因为不满被响车笛,所以就下车大发雷霆,(11月28日)星期五的回家途中,我就看到类似这样的情景,但也没有八卦到停车看,只是知道那印裔的司机直接停车在交通灯前(那时他线的交通灯是绿色的,他的是直线,我的是转弯线)就不知道哪来的车笛声(实际上我也没有注意到那么多),我就看到那本来在行驶着车子立即停下来,一位印裔三十出的男子下车走向停在我旁边的德士车乱骂一通,不到几秒我的交通灯转绿,我就驾走了(也完全不知道他们后来的结果会是怎样)

Recall back the day before in the morning, I got my car petrol palm and drive our from the gas station, it was a small road came to huge and high speed road, so I stopped my car and go out slowly, I can't stick the the most left internal lane to slowly drive out because a truck was stopping over there!! Then I heard the second car behind me was start horn crazily, the crazily means the horn sound was continuously just like crazy......luckily they car behind me drive passed by block the coming car, which has helped me get to the highway safely!!!


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回想到前一天早上,当我加完油,正要小路出高速的大路时,我就看到有很多来往的车,所以停着,而它侧边可以靠着出大路的道路又有罗里停着,所以就等一等慢慢出,结果后面的第二辆车,就好像那种(要赶去投胎)的那种情况,不停不停不停的响笛(三次不停是真的好像那种疯子一样,一直按,一直按,一直按)然后刚好在后面的车超越我,帮我挡住,这我才可以出到大路!!

Of cause that I was scolding crazily in car, but it last a few minutes, I think of I should calm down instead because when a angry person met with another angry person it just making the case even worst!! So from that, I started came out idea, which's I should put all my hair down in front of my face (of coz not trying to block the eye sight) so when the car who's horn drive by, he will looked into the car staring at me but then actually he'll see a "g-h-o-s-t" driving instead!! Hahahaha!! Okay, that's obviously very silly but all the anger has gone at that moment!!


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出到大路的时候,我也有在车上的乱骂一下,不过很快的我又想到那种因为一个火爆然后再加另外一个火爆的就会变成更更火爆及大件事,我脑海不及想出一个白痴的方法,那就是我应该把我的头发放下来,放在眼睛前面(当然要不挡到很多视线的那种)等那个司机超越我的时候,来稍瞄到我。。。他将会是看到的~~~阿~~~飘~~~在驾驶!!!   哈哈哈!!! !!!   (是有点白痴,不过我当时却是不气了!)

Especially when people was mad at us, we shouldn't have to be doing the same thing as mad at them back!! "The more angry they're, the more calmness we should have!!" And always the first thing came to mind is I don't want to get famous because somebody has take a silly video or picture of me then put on the internet......So before it started, before you're mad, please control your emotional, everything can be different!!!


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很多时候不一定要一样生气,“当他人越生气的时候,我们就应该越冷静!”而且我脑海里一直都有一个念头就是,我不要被“拍上网”,我不要因为这样而变出名,这种丢脸丢到家的事,不但我自己会名誉扫地,而且还有可能牵连到身边很多人,在还没做还没发火前,就是要学会控制,凡事都可以避免的!!!

26 comments:

  1. You are right, keep calm.. I know it's easier said than done.. This morning, somebody made me angry too, but I couldn't keep calm, I still showed out my temper and expressions, sigh.. I think I need to learn to keep cool, keep calm, and maintain a cool face, then I think that would be very cool :)

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    1. Hahaha!! If next time got angry again, go to toilet then count 1 to 10, hehe!! =]

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  2. yes you are right, it's all about EQ!! the more hot tempered and mad we are, I guess the more unhappy we are, agree?? it's really good to calm down and then see the whole incident from a different angle, 不要鑽牛角尖 but sometimes think out of the box and put on the shoes of the other party.. and most of the time, you would be able to see something inspiring, and you learn something from the incident, be it good or bad.. being mad can never resolve issues but just increase the level of misunderstanding and hurt the feelings.. so 停一停諗一諗 and that will give you a clearer sky.. 共勉之 :)

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    1. Stop for a while, pull ourselves out from the situation to rethink the condition, yah!! You're so right as well!! =]

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  3. Have to count to 10.....errr...but sometimes cannot tahan also la

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    1. Yah, try to pull other things else to do, don't want to think about it!! What to do, is life...that we've a lot to deal with!!

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  4. 是啊,我覺得在路上,保持冷靜很重要。
    偶爾,我和老公出門,也會遇上一些危險駕駛的人,若以前,我們絕對會鳴笛...;
    可現在,就擔心一個鳴笛,會迎來路霸,所以甘願忍氣,安慰自己,算了算了...

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    1. 对,除非对方要几乎没看到我,要撞到我了,我才会响笛,假如不是,我都是一定要忍一忍啊!

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  5. [当别人越生气 你就要越冷静] 这个好,不过讲容易 做很难吧。。
    我如果自己一个人驾车的时候,车厢内会是粗口满天飞的,因为马路上实在是太多鸟人了。不过我除了面对绿灯不走的车之外,从来都不打车笛的。没用的,那个只能吓到糊里糊涂的人或是激怒鸟人。

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    1. 哈哈哈,是很难,所以我每当在要很生气地时候,就一直跟自己说要冷静,冷静,然后再幻想后果(女生超厉害幻想的)所以很快就可以带过!=]

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  6. 为了小事鸣车笛,回头想想又何必!
    别人鸣笛我不气,气出病来无人替!
    假扮 X X让猜疑,小影想法好得意!

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    1. 哈哈哈,那是因为我太无聊,很骂回那个人,我又不敢,然后就想出一个要捉弄他人的方法,呵呵!

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  7. 说的好!别人生气时我们就应该冷静(尽量啦),要不然真的会更大锅!

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  8. 对对对!!不然事情可能越闹越大!!哈哈。。。

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    1. 最怕因为这样变红,都没有地方藏了~~~

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  9. 生气时要我冷静我做不到。
    而且很火爆性格完全控制不住。:(

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    1. 但感觉很脾气很好,不会很容易生气的吧,呵呵呵!!=

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  10. 以前在路上遇到这样的事,我也会碎碎念,现在不太念了,
    因为小孩在车里,不好说脏话,哈哈!!

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    1. 你是好父母,哈哈哈!!!  现在很多都不管,就直接骂罢了,都不会树立好榜样!=]

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  11. 其实我觉得响车笛真的好不礼貌!
    我也很讨厌!!

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    1. 但没办法,有时候是必要的,是要提醒对方,也是一种以防车祸的方法之一!

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  12. Wise words. Better keep calm and walk away from situations that make you angry because angry words once out cannot be taken back.

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    1. Yah, even really have to separate the words out, maybe can just whispered it that yourself can hear only, that's one kind of release!! =]

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