【Thoughts｜想法】Keep Calm｜冷静

December 3, 2014, Wednesday

No doubt it, I'm a hot-tempered person, when I mad at something, I just throw tempered and says everything out from my mouth (no need to cover for that, is okay to accept the imperfection and bad attitude some times!!) Back to the topic, gradually I realized when people are getting mad at us, we should become even more calm, no matter how angry it's, rather not talking (even better if not showing the angry face), we still have to keep calm, and only with this method, we won't make the "incident" getting even worst!!

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无可否认的，我是一个蛮火爆的人，遇到一不爽的事，我是会嘴巴会很贱的乱骂（也无需假假说自己好像很棒不会骂人的那样，每个人都有缺点，或许我的比较多，但始终是没有一个人是完美的，所以看事情，请看全面，不要以小事一宗就盲目的崇拜）回归正题，我最近发现，当别人越火爆越生气的时候，我们越需要冷静，无论我自己再怎样生气，即使不说话也要（最好不要丑脸），也要保持冷静，因为只有这样才不会把事情闹大！

Lots of dislike horn sound accident cases recently, (November 28) is Friday, this happened when I was driving back home, I saw almost the similar case like this, but I didn't my car to gossip about......what I saw was an Indian male stopped his car in the middle of road, in front of the traffic light (his traffic light was showing green on that time on his lane, his lane was a going straight lane, mine was the turning lane) don't know where's the horn sound from, I saw a moving stop suddenly and an Indian male stepped out from his car and walked towards the taxi which stopped beside me and start scolding!! I spotted within the few second then my lane traffic light turns green so I quickly drive away without know what was going happened to them!!

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话说最近很多因为不满被响车笛，所以就下车大发雷霆，(11月28日)星期五的回家途中，我就看到类似这样的情景，但也没有八卦到停车看，只是知道那印裔的司机直接停车在交通灯前（那时他线的交通灯是绿色的，他的是直线，我的是转弯线）就不知道哪来的车笛声（实际上我也没有注意到那么多），我就看到那本来在行驶着车子立即停下来，一位印裔三十出的男子下车走向停在我旁边的德士车乱骂一通，不到几秒我的交通灯转绿，我就驾走了（也完全不知道他们后来的结果会是怎样）

Recall back the day before in the morning, I got my car petrol palm and drive our from the gas station, it was a small road came to huge and high speed road, so I stopped my car and go out slowly, I can't stick the the most left internal lane to slowly drive out because a truck was stopping over there!! Then I heard the second car behind me was start horn crazily, the crazily means the horn sound was continuously just like crazy......luckily they car behind me drive passed by block the coming car, which has helped me get to the highway safely!!!

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回想到前一天早上，当我加完油，正要小路出高速的大路时，我就看到有很多来往的车，所以停着，而它侧边可以靠着出大路的道路又有罗里停着，所以就等一等慢慢出，结果后面的第二辆车，就好像那种（要赶去投胎）的那种情况，不停不停不停的响笛（三次不停是真的好像那种疯子一样，一直按，一直按，一直按）然后刚好在后面的车超越我，帮我挡住，这我才可以出到大路！！

Of cause that I was scolding crazily in car, but it last a few minutes, I think of I should calm down instead because when a angry person met with another angry person it just making the case even worst!! So from that, I started came out idea, which's I should put all my hair down in front of my face (of coz not trying to block the eye sight) so when the car who's horn drive by, he will looked into the car staring at me but then actually he'll see a "g-h-o-s-t" driving instead!! Hahahaha!! Okay, that's obviously very silly but all the anger has gone at that moment!!

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出到大路的时候，我也有在车上的乱骂一下，不过很快的我又想到那种因为一个火爆然后再加另外一个火爆的就会变成更更火爆及大件事，我脑海不及想出一个白痴的方法，那就是我应该把我的头发放下来，放在眼睛前面（当然要不挡到很多视线的那种）等那个司机超越我的时候，来稍瞄到我。。。他将会是看到的～～～阿～～～飘～～～在驾驶！！！   哈哈哈！！！ ！！！   （是有点白痴，不过我当时却是不气了！）

Especially when people was mad at us, we shouldn't have to be doing the same thing as mad at them back!! "The more angry they're, the more calmness we should have!!" And always the first thing came to mind is I don't want to get famous because somebody has take a silly video or picture of me then put on the internet......So before it started, before you're mad, please control your emotional, everything can be different!!!

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很多时候不一定要一样生气，“当他人越生气的时候，我们就应该越冷静！”而且我脑海里一直都有一个念头就是，我不要被“拍上网”，我不要因为这样而变出名，这种丢脸丢到家的事，不但我自己会名誉扫地，而且还有可能牵连到身边很多人，在还没做还没发火前，就是要学会控制，凡事都可以避免的！！！